Good day friends! In the last part, we continued our journey of Evaluations as we visited
the personal development pool. I hope that we have taken the necessary steps
and resolutions we need to.
In this part, we shall consider the need to evaluate our RESULTS.
I need to remind you of John Wooden’s words: “Without self-evaluation, failure is inevitable”. Can we begin?
I need to remind you of John Wooden’s words: “Without self-evaluation, failure is inevitable”. Can we begin?
It was
British politician, army officer, and writer, Winston Churchill, who said
“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that
counts.” I agree that we all have subjective personal perceptions to what
qualifies for success or failure. Regardless of our individual perceptions, we
can get down to some good evaluations still. Using the basic skills in high
jump, let us take these FIVE “how” QUESTIONS as they guide our evaluation:
1. How did
you RUN UP?
How was your
preparation towards each major endeavor/project of the year? Was it thorough or
haphazard? Was it intentional or done just anyhow? Did you equip yourself well
for the project? Be honest with yourself. Consider every endeavour of yours
this year. Which ones were successes and which ones were failures? Is there a
difference between the quality of inputs from your side?
2. How did
you TAKE OFF?
How did you
start the project? Was it a premature or overdue start? Did the commencement
catch you unawares? Can you really say you had a strong start?
3. How was
the FLIGHT?
What
happened in the course of the endeavor/project? Did your energy level drop? Did
you lose motivation? Were you frustrated? Were you encouraged by pillar-like
friends? Did you celebrate too early? Did you give up too easily? Did you learn
lessons on the way? Did you seek help when you were at crossroads? Were you
fond of giving excuses all along?
4. How was
the LANDING?
Did you land
recklessly or gallantly? Remember how you landed, not because you want to
agonize, but because you need to organize.
5. How did
you RECOVER?
Do not try
to downplay your mess-ups and do not overblow your successes. Do not beat
yourself hard over your failures, and do not over-pamper yourself over a
victory. Personally, I have a 24-hour rule. When I fail, I mourn for a maximum
of 24hours and get back to my feet. When I succeed, I celebrate for a maximum
of 24hours and get on to the next challenge. So, whether it’s a success of
failure, I don’t dwell on it beyond 24hours. This is personal for me, and I
don’t make it a general rule for everyone.
Friends, you need to arm yourselves better so you can get better results next year. In the next and final part, we will round up this series by evaluating our use of social media. Did you find motivation in this piece? I’ll appreciate your
feedbacks and comments. I love you all.
Victor Fawole is the Director and Thought Leader at TheAsegunProject. You can reach him via theasegunproject@gmail.com or +2348131048604
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